KIDSCOPE has now produced a video about children's reactions to a diagnosis of breast cancer in their mothers. My Mom Has Breast Cancer includes interviews with children and mothers who have successfully weathered this experience. In addition to describing their reactions and feelings, particularly the fear of the loss of their mother at the time of diagnosis, the children describe their difficulties learning to cope with a significantly altered family life. The video attempts to elucidate the various changes in a family's life, for which many families are unprepared. It is hoped that armed with the knowledge of the changes to come, parents will be able to better assist their children. Other avenues or resources which families might need to explore to reduce their stress and improve their coping are described. Upsetting alterations in the mother's appearance due to surgery (such as mastectomy) and chemotherapy, are also addressed. The side effects of body disfigurement i.e., loss of breast or breasts, loss of hair, pallor, fatigue, as well as a significant loss of energy and increased irritability are noted by many of the children. Additionally, the children describe ways in which their mother coped until resuming her normal appearance.
In spite of the intense emotions displayed and the upsetting experience described, the children and mothers react in an optimistic view of life. This is illustrated by some humorous means of coping. The video is a means through which the participants and filmmakers hope to assist families entering into the frightening but optimistic world of cancer treatment. My Mom Has Breast Cancer is available free of charge to those requesting it. Just click the link below to order it.
